Tuesday, December 30, 2008
Christmas Celebrations
On the 24th, Dwaine's 55th birthday, we went to Dwaine and Janet's for dinner and to open Christmas Eve gifts. We had planned to play games but that didn't happen. We left around 11:30 and got home, put the kids to bed, got stockings out, etc and went to sleep ourselves. Katie woke up at 7:30 Christmas morning and we all opened our stocking and then ate some waffles for breakfast. We read the nativity story out of the scriptures and then opened our gifts. We didn't want to take too long because Scott was calling between 8 and 10 am our time to talk to everyone. We finished opening gifts around 9:30 and headed over. Scott had just called when we arrived and Dwaine and Janet hadn't eaten breakfast or opened gifts yet so we got Scott all to ourselves when they ate. We stayed until around 10 pm and Dallin was so tired he fell asleep in the living room on the air mattress. It was so cute. We didn't want to get up early and do boxing day shopping so we had a lazy morning and went in in the afternoon to do some shopping after the craziness had died down a lot. It was a lot of fun. Unfortunately, we didn't take any pictures, really, so I don't have any to add to the blog. Sorry.
Monday, December 29, 2008
Monday, December 15, 2008
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
I've Been Tagged!
Seven Random Facts About Me:
1. I have green eyes - not blue like everyone seems to think
2. I've been induced both times with my kids. One early, one late.
3. I've stapled my own hand (when I was an infant) and got stitches because of it.
4. I love to learn. If I could be in school forever, I would be.
5. I am really shy - even though I try to hide it.
6. I never wanted to live in a small town. :)
7. I am the youngest of 6 kids.
Here are the people I will tag:
Tuesday, October 7, 2008
The Wooden Bowl
The Wooden Bowl
A frail old man went to live with his son, daughter-in-law, and four-year-old grandson.
The old man's hands trembled, his eyesight was blurred, and his step faltered.
The family ate together at the table. But the elderly grandfather's shaky hands and
failing sight made eating difficult. Peas rolled off his spoon onto the floor.
When he grasped the glass, milk spilled on the tablecloth. The son and daughter-in-law became irritated with the mess. 'We must do something about father,' said the son.
'I've had enough of his spilled milk, noisy eating, and food on the floor.' So the husband and wife set a small table in the corner.
There, Grandfather ate alone while the rest of the family enjoyed dinner.
Since Grandfather had broken a dish or two, his food was served in a wooden bowl. When the family glanced in Grandfather's direction, sometimes he had a tear in his eye as he sat alone.
Still, the only words the couple had for him were sharp admonitions when he dropped a fork or spilled food. The four-year-old watched it all in silence.
One evening before supper, the father noticed his son playing with wood scraps on the floor.
He asked the child sweetly, 'What are you making?' Just as sweetly, the boy responded,
'Oh, I am making a little bowl for you and Mama to eat your food in when I grow up. ' The four-year-old smiled and went back to work.The words so struck the parents so that they were speechless.
Then tears started to stream down their cheeks.
Though no word was spoken, both knew what must be done. That evening the husband took Grandfather's hand and gently led him back to the family table.
For the remainder of his days he ate every meal with the family. And for some reason,
neither husband nor wife seemed to care any longer when a fork was dropped, milk spilled, or the tablecloth soiled.
On a positive note, I've learned that, no matter what happens, how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.
I've learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles four things:
a rainy day, the elderly, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights.
I've learned that, regardless of your relationship with your parents, you'll miss them when they're gone from your life.
I've learned that making a 'living' is not the same thing as making a 'life..'
I've learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance.
I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt on both hands. You need to be able to throw something back
I've learned that if you pursue happiness, it will elude you but, if you focus on your family, your friends, the needs of others, your work and doing the very best you can, happiness will find you.
I've learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision.
I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one.
I've learned that every day, you should reach out and touch someone. People love that human touch -- holding hands, a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back...
I've learned that I still have a lot to learn.
I hope you've enjoyed this message. It's a good one.
Wednesday, October 1, 2008
Blog contest
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I also get more entries if people go from my blog so go, you'll love the prizes too!
Sunday, September 7, 2008
I'm Pregnant!
Monday, May 26, 2008
And the winners are.....
Sunday, May 18, 2008
I won
Sunday's Spiritual Thoughts - nice weather, my hubby and a calling
The first thing I'll write about is nice weather. We have had some really hot days lately. It was up to 32 degrees yesterday. Luckily, to counter it, we've also had a good amount of rain. It rained on and off today which kept it cool enough and my flowers are just blooming. It has been great. The only thing is that I have to make sure I wear sunscreen now which I hate but we all have to make sacrifices :P
The next thing is my hubby. Darcy just turned 27 yesterday and you wouldn't believe what he decided to do for his birthday. He slept in until 9 am and then got up because I made him pancakes and eggs for breakfast. After that he got started. He set up our new lawnmower and mowed our lawn (which is very big), he set up the BBQ, and he got rid of all the old appliances we've had hanging around (we had a washer, dryer and stove in front of our house and another washer and dryer at his parents' house). Yay! they're finally in the dump. He also brought over our elliptical from his parents' house so I can use it again and numerous other things. I can tell you that I was shocked. I thought he'd want to sit at home and play on the Wii all day. He's so handy to have around. What a bonus that I love him too, eh?
And now for the third and finally topic. I got a calling today. Woo hoo. I was asked to come see the Bishop before church this morning and I am now in the enrichment committee in my ward relief society. I am so happy. It's about time. I feel so weird when I don't have a calling. It's crazy. I'm one of those people that go to my Bishop and bug him about it. It doesn't really help though. I still end up waiting a while. I'm excited to start actually. It should be lots of fun and I've never done this calling before so it's something new for me.
Anyway, that's it for today. I think I'll probably turn this post into a Thursday's blessings post because I'm not always on the computer on Sundays so we'll see how it goes. Maybe it'll switch back and forth and I'll do one or the other. Who knows...
Thursday, May 1, 2008
Being A Mother
BEING A MOTHER
After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman out to dinner and a movie. She said, 'I love you, but I know this other woman loves you and would Love to spend some time with you.' The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my Mother, who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally. That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie.
'What's wrong, are you well,' she asked?
My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news. 'I thought that it would be pleasant to spend some time with you,' I responded 'just the two of us.' She thought about it for a moment, and then said, 'I would like that very much.'
That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited in the door with her coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary. She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel's.
'I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed,' she said, as she got into the car. 'They can't wait to hear about our meeting.' We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady. After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Her eyes could only read large print. Half-way through the entrees, I lifted my eyes and saw Mother sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips. 'It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small,' she said.
'Then it's time that you relax and let me return the favor,' I responded.
During the dinner , we had an agreeable conversation nothing extraordinary but catching up on recent events of each other's life. We talked so much that we missed the movie. As we arrived at her house later, she said, 'I'll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you.' I agreed.
'How was your dinner date?' asked my wife when I got home.
'Very nice, much more so than I could have imagined,' I answered.
A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I didn't have a chance to do anything for her. Sometime later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place Mother and I had dined. An attached note said: 'I paid this bill in advance. I wasn't sure that I could be there; but, nevertheless, I paid for two plates - one for you and the other for your wife. You will never know what that night meant for me. 'I love you, son'
At that moment, I understood the importance of saying in time: 'I love YOU' and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve. Nothing in life is more important than your family. Give them the time they deserve, because these things cannot be put off till some other time.
Somebody said it takes about six weeks to get back to normal after you've had a baby... somebody doesn't know that once you're a mother, 'normal' is history.
Somebody said you can't love the second child as much as you love the first... somebody doesn't have two or more children.
Somebody said the hardest part of being a mother is labor and delivery....somebody never watched her 'baby' get on the bus for the first day of kindergarten... or on a plane headed for military 'boot camp.'
Somebody said a Mother can stop worrying after her child gets married... somebody doesn't know that marriage adds a new son or daughter-in-law to a mother's heartstrings.
Somebody said a mother's job is done when her last child leaves home... somebody never had grandchildren.
Somebody said your mother knows you love her, so you don't need to tell her... somebody isn't a mother.
This is for all the GREAT 'mothers' in your life and for everyone who ever had a mother. This isn't just about being a mother; it's about appreciating the people in your lives while you have them... no matter who that person is!
Watch your thoughts, they become words.
Watch your words, they become actions.
Watch your actions, they become habits.
Watch your habits, they become character.
Watch your character, for it becomes...your destiny.
'Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle'.
Wednesday, April 30, 2008
Cute Nails
These are Katie's. She got blue nails with white flowers and pink centers. She loves them!
Here are mine. Sorry, I really don't have cute feet. But mine were black with blue and pink flowers and white dots diagonally across. I originally had blue flowers but you could barely see them so we did pink over top and they look pretty cool. She also did ladybugs another time she did my nails. They were so cute.
Sunday, April 27, 2008
Sunday's Spiritual Thoughts - The funny things kids do
Today's post is just for the funny things kids do. We had a great time tonight. Scott did his farewell talk today and we had a big get-together at Dwaine and Janet's afterward. Everyone always comments about our kids and something they do so here are a couple videos we've gotten recently that make us laugh.
We were shopping at Superstore Saturday night and Dallin was soooo tired that he started falling asleep while sitting up. So funny!
And for further enjoyment, here is a video we got the other day of Katie dancing. Gotta love watching her shake her booty!
Hope you enjoyed this as much as we have. And the FYI about Scott is that he's leaving on Saturday and reports to the MTC on May 7. He's going to the Jacksonville, FL mission. Good luck Scott!
Saturday, April 26, 2008
SPT
The last time we filled up was on Thursday and it equaled to approximately $75. Yikes! If I were to spend that on something for me I would buy a Ryobi 18V circular saw with laser.
Yes, that's right. Tools. I've always wanted them but can never justify buying them. Of couse, I would prefer a DeWalt but if I have to have the $75 price range, I'll have to stick with Ryobi.
Sunday, April 20, 2008
Sunday's Spiritual Thoughts - Children and The Priesthood
Today's post is about the Priesthood of our church. We seemed to talk about it alot today. Sunday school in our family relations class was about fathers. Almost everything said revolved around the Priesthood in some way. Like being able to give father's blessings and baptizing your children and how important these little things become to your children. Then, in RS, we talked about where we would be without the Melchizedek Priesthood here on the earth. It's a scary thought for most of us. I can't imagine where I would be. I know I wouldn't be sealed to my family forever and I'm pretty sure that my family wouldn't be as close as we are. We wouldn't have had the wonderful examples that we were raised with. I'm am very glad to know that I will never have to experience life without the priesthood in my home.
Tuesday, April 8, 2008
I've Been Tagged!
A- Attached or Single: Definitely attached and very happy about it too!
D- Day of Choice: Saturdays. I get help with the kids and time with my family. That's also my shopping day :P
E- Essential Item: Clothing. I don't know where I'd be without it (kidding :) I just had to say it!) There are too many essential items for me to be able to pick just one.....Food, Water, The Gospel, etc, etc.
F- Favorite color: Royal blue (yes, Tilane, the same answer again! ;)
G- Gummi Bears or Worms: None. They hurt my teeth
H- Hometown: Calgary (born and raised)
I- Indulgence(s): Books. I love to read
J- January or July: July because I just hate January
K-Kids: Two of them. Kaitlyn and Dallin. They are so much fun and so much work!
L- Life is Incomplete Without: My Faith and what it has taught me. Without it I would be lost.M-Marriage Date: May 31, 2003
N- Number of Siblings: 4 brothers, 1 sister. 9 sister-in-laws, 6 brother-in-lawsO- Oranges or apples: Apples unless it's mandarin orange (that's the only type of orange I like)Monday, April 7, 2008
Sunday's Spiritual Thoughts - General Conference
Easter
Here are some pictures of the cookies and things I made for Easter to give away. The first is Bird's Nest cookies, Then there are the bumble bees and then the flowes drawn on a marshmallow egg.
Sunday, March 30, 2008
Sunday's Spiritual Thoughts - Young Children and Healthy Marriages
The other is Health Marriages. We just finished the last class of the marriage portion of our Marriage and Family relations class. It's nice to be reminded of things that we need to improve and see how much better we are doing in some ways. It's great to hear how certain lessons have helped people in our class and see the healthy marriages people have. I have noticed that, in some cases, a good argument/disagreement is very healthy to a marriage. I have seen too many people that seemed like they had the perfect marriage end up divorced and everyone around them was shocked. I have also seem some of the other extreme as well. I am so happy to be able to say we have a healthy marriage. We don't agree a lot of the time and both of us have have tempers but we have succeeded in working through all our problems and are very happy together!
Sunday, March 16, 2008
Sunday's Spiritual Thoughts - Missions
Sunday, March 9, 2008
Sunday's spiritual thoughts - Friends
I also have Amy Johansen in my ward now and it's good to see her and get reaquainted with her. Then there are my new friends. I've been taking a class on "Parenting the strong-willed child" and have met 2 great women that have become friends very quickly - Erin Smith and Colby Fletcher. It's amazing how quickly we've become friends and how much we have in common.
I'm so glad that I have been able to find old and new friends everywhere I go. It feels like I went so long without having anyone close to me that I could talk to like a real friend does....
Sunday, March 2, 2008
Sunday's spiritual thoughts - families
My dad taught me a really good lesson when I was a teenager that I will never forget. He taught me that "You love the people you do things for". NOT doing things for the people we love. We need to try harder to love everyone. At that point in my life, I was having a hard time with another girl my age and I was hating her at that moment. My dad made me make cookies for her and things got better. I'm sorry to say that I didn't do more. Maybe if I had, we would have become friends. I have tried to keep this in mind when people do things that may hurt or offend me.
I'm not saying that you need to bake something for your spouse every time you have a disagreement. They might catch on and just keep annoying you. :)
This is what I want everyone to do.... I want you to give everyone in your family a hug or kiss and tell them that you love them. People don't say it often enough and everyone loves and needs to hear it. I hope you all take a moment to think about your family and how much they mean to you...
I love you all!
Saturday, March 1, 2008
House Virtual Tour
Here is the virtual tour of our new house. I was unable to add commentary to the video because it makes sound go later (so when I'm describing Katie's room, the video is in Dallin's room...)
Anyway - it starts out at the front of the house, then I walk up to the door and go into the laundry room, then through the hallway into the bathroom, around the kitchen, to Katie's room. From there I go into Dallin's room and back through the kitchen to the living room. Then into our bedroom and back outside. Around the side of the house to the back and into the shed (it's very dark in there so you don't see much). Then around the shed to the back and around the other side of the house back up to the front.
Thursday, February 21, 2008
"I Hurt My Feelings"
I say, "Katie, that's your shoulder"
"Oh, well, where are my feelings?" she asks.
(Wow, what a question. That's one of those that just comes out of nowhere and you now have to try to think of an answer to that that will not confuse her....)
"Well, your feelings are inside you" (oh yeah, good one. Now she's going to point into her mouth when she says it). Here goes nothing.... "It's like when you feel sad - that's a feeling" (ok, that's a little better. At least she would understand that one!)
"Oh, ok" she says. (Yay! It worked!)
A few minutes later...
"Mommy, my feelings are all better," she says excitedly while rubbing her stomach (I obviously didn't do as good a job as I thought. Oh well. Better luck next time I guess)
Friday, February 15, 2008
Valentine's Day
After Darcy got home we exchanged gifts. We got the kids a large sucker with a toy truck for Dallin and Sunglasses for Katie. They loved it. I got Darcy a DVD with the best of Mr. Bean because he loves Mr. Bean and I don't like him so he doesn't get to watch him much anymore and a $20 gift card to EB Games so he can pick a game he really wants. Darcy got me Footloose on DVD and She's the Man (this movie is sooo funny. You just can't stop laughing even though it's in embarassment most of the time...) and Hairspray soundtrack. I was so happy. I really wanted all of these. Yay! Here's some pics of the gifts:
You can probably guess that we just tossed them into the tub after this, then they went to bed and Darcy and I watched She's the Man. Whew! That made it seem like a long day...
Thursday, February 14, 2008
New pics of Katie
This one is her puppy dog face. It melts Darcy every time...
That's the last one I'm going to add. Hope you enjoy them as much as I did!
Monday, February 11, 2008
Dallin's birthday pics
Here's one of the adults playing with Dallin's birthday gift. He got a Mr. Potato head and Darcy started playing with it before Dallin could.
Here's one of Dallin's face after eating cake - he's still clean. We were shocked. He ate the cake but not the icing or candy on top of it. So, then we cake him a chocolate cupcake...
Yay! He got messy. He wasn't too happy about being messy though and didn't eat the rest of his cake. It was a fun birthday with family and a few friends. He got some dinosaurs that grow when you put them in water and the Mr. Potato head, a foam counting book, a large dino magnet, and a drawing tablet.
Wednesday, February 6, 2008
Dallin's Birthday
Tuesday, February 5, 2008
House updated
Saturday, February 2, 2008
Monday, January 28, 2008
Spiritual Enlightenment
As I went to Relief Society I really liked the lesson that was given. It was on "Good, Better, and Best". Our teached referred to the story of Mary and Martha. She had to admit that she was more of a "Martha" in the fact that when she would have people coming over she would clean, and tidy up even after they had arrived whereas a "Mary" would have sat down regardless of the mess and listened the message that the visitor had brought. I am grateful that I am able to sit down and listen to the messages that are given without being to hard on myself for the things I am not able to get done.
House
*Update: Well - the financing has gone through and the condition has been removed. Home Insurance is almost set up and the home inspection will be done on Monday. Lawyer has been contacted and we're almost done with the lovely little details that go with buying a home...Yay!
**New Update: The home inspection was done today because there was a death in his family and he couldn't do it on Monday. Everything went really well and it looks like it'll be a good house to flip too, if we want to try it. So, that's the last condition that we have to deal with. I'm getting so anxious to move in...